Dealing

What do we really feel sorrow for when we mourn a lost life?
Fading memories, lost possibilities… a lacking presence
And what do we mourn in what can be the profound hurting of a broken heart?
Above all, I should say – a lost hope.
But hope is a man made concept, and of course all that is man made is in fact artificial, which makes it unreal.. and what is not real has to be a lie... and a lie is in all reality - non existent!
So the next time you sit at home a cry about a loer or a love that you welcomed and natured (therefore not even a naturally developed affection) - if you ever do, remember that all you are crying about is simply - NOTHING.
Just close your eyes and turn to a side where you can actually see the light and feel its warmth. Actually no matter what kind of pain it is that you are feeling the only realistic step towards achieveing anything is to cut ties with the past that is dragging you down. Vengence is a lazy form of grief, life is not always just and if you can find it inside you to simply accept this fact and continue living, it will five you a sense of peace at the very least. If you chose to make someone happy for every sadness you experience in life at the end of the day you will not walk away with nothing - no matter what you lose you have that satisfaction. Unless of course, you are too self centered to even be able to value that feeling.