We all thought love, lasts forever...

For every woman who is in a relationship with a guy afraid of commitment or someone who is totally insecure about you, my advice is to stop bitching to your girl friends on how shitty men are it is totally not going to get you anywhere. In fact, the reason you are in so much shit is because of women in the first place.
Not that I'm much of a Freud supporter, I do think he is a spoilt, ungrateful brat who blamed his mother for all the shit he went through and did nothing about it - HOWEVER I also think that its probably very true that mistrust and suspicion comes from incidents witness from the home environment, if it is not that some chick came and broke his heart when he was naive, sixteen and totally 'twitterpated'. Chances are pretty high that he mended his broken pieces and swore on his dead body that he would NEVER be that stupid again.
You've been there too? Well, men are not as forgiving especially of themselves as you may be. And there is always ego and pride to overcome. If you do darling, don't throw it away, thats a pretty big deal sacrifice wise from a man, do me a favor and be respectful even when you have to let him go, at least for the sake of the next poor girl who falls head over heels for him and gets maltreated simply because YOU were so fucking rude.
Back to the bitching thing, anyways... chicks are gonna be totally biased on your side, and though that can feel really good and liberating, the fact of the matter is that a relationship takes two to make or break it... thus, please don't rely on a 'girl you rule' to simply throw away something meaningful, nor is it plausible cause to plan out elaborate ball-chopping revenge plans either! Harmless bitching is one thing, and you using it as an excuse to give him and undeserved hard time is a totally different scenario!
Your friends can tell you what they feel, but the decision should be yours. Too much (and this applies to younger generations of both sexes... ) reliance on a high powered, hormone charged scream fest as motivation can very likely ruin some of the best things that have happened to you.
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I feel like a old hag, but my little cousins talking about love and lovers is just wierd to my ears and I can't believe I'm talking to my older sis about these things and this little brat feels that she knows everything already when she butts in... so wierd. :P Okay, I know, I was her not so long ago, but still!!! Hehehe, the cycle of life... MAAAAAN... I was just discussing this with PurpleFalho... we just can't get over how fast kids are growing up these days.. I mean 13... Wow... I wasn't thinking about anything sexual those days!!
Maybe we just supressed it all... Maybe it's all related to the psychological theory - stages of life and everybody is over exposed to the oral sensory and anal sensory part(0-2 is oral, when kids put everything in their mouth and anal is 2-3 when kids spend lotsa time in the bathroom and toilet training begins. The psycho dudes say its due to a membrane in the anal region that induces feelings of intense pleasure and thats when our body discovers this)... back to what I was saying. It's all rather strange.
They fall in love at 16 and want to be married by 18 and you try to tell them its always love at 16 but they simply WILL NOT believe you... and then you predict what will happen as they change and evolve and their personalitites usually take opposite and radical turns... and then they come and cry on your lap... and you tell them it's okay been their done thta. Come 18 they think it really is love this time and you hear lots of 'well Thitha what the hell do you know??' (which is when you feel really ancient).... and then the cycle just goes on. LOL, you want to teach them but the simply won't listen just like you didn't either simply coz life requires we do our own individual fucking up before we come full circle :)
LOL... we lose faith in everything and spend the rest of our life trying to find it and keep it strong... wow, we start out planning life to our retirement, go back to living a day at a time, and somehow try intergrate both together. Ya... humans are complex arrite!!!
Anyway... check out this sweet video from a little boy (loabi kan!!!) who was dissed by his cheating girlfriend... (awwwww...)

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